Question about stalkers

Helvane

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Okay so i'm actually very curious have any of you ever had stalkers before? I know this sounds crazy but for some reason at the school I go to I have people that talk about me a lot for some reason and some of them try touching my hand or touching my arm when I walk through the hallways. These are people that I've never talk to before and most of them are on the varsity sports teams.
 
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I saw this. Had to reply. Yes. I have had stalkers before. To be completely honest with you I am 26 and been through a lot. But stalker situations can be something harder.
Step one make sure they are stalking and not just a by accident type of thing.
Step two confront your stalker. Doesn’t mean up in the face type deal. If someone is touching you and you do not like it the first thing is to tell them. “Hey, I noticed you keep trying to touch my arm or hand. This makes me very uncomfortable and I need you to stop. If this continues it is harrassment.” Make sure to stand firm on if they continue. So they know that if they stop it is cool. Continuation will lead to you getting serious.
Step three. If they continue to try after your warning go straight to your teacher, principal, if at work higher up or boss and tell them you are dealing with harassment. Explain to them the warning you gave to said person. Then the following up actions and how they have behaved since to make it harassment.

I am very sorry your having this. I personally have went through hell and back. If you need a friend or just someone to talk to I am always here sweetie. Discord I am BloodySoulStealer. I am very open and will give advice anytime.
 
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Helvane

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Yeah I already confronted them about it, they said that they just wanted to talk to me because I look like i'm sad everyday.
 
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Aww. That is really sweet. I am glad it worked out for you sweetie. If you ever need advice or someone to talk to I am here. Though I do apologize I call everyone sweetie. It is my way of speaking. Blame my aunt. Anyway you can contact me through this or discord like I said.
Discord: BloodySoulStealer#1479
Otherwise I am around.
 
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